Common steps and sub-activities

Orgasm control

Orgasm control is generally used in a non-spiritual context by the male partner in order to prolong the pleasure of the woman and gradually heighten the level of arousal of the man – in effect whilst he is ‘holding back’, she may have multiple orgasms, and he experiences gradually increasing arousal.  It is  sometimes known colloquially as "edging", "peaking", "surfing"

Orgasm control is thus yet another name for withholding orgasm.  BUT, the objective however is not to totally withhold orgasm but to withhold it for the purposes of a more intense and longer lasting orgasm.  

As a consequence you need to treat orgams control as  only an intermediary step within the context of sexual stimulation techniques, as the end objective within this context is complete withholding of orgasm.

It is a good useful practising technique on the way to the final objective.